Dr. Lynn Hellerstein of Vision Beyond Sight speaks with K.J. “Kellie” Risley, a divorced mom and the author of “Rage & Reps, a 30-Day movement and healing journal for women rebuilding after betrayal,” to talk about helping women use Rage & Reps as a starting point to clear their minds, move their bodies, and rise stronger after betrayal. When Kellie’s ex-husband had an affair, she turned to journaling and movement as an outlet for her rage. While she was a natural when it comes to working out, she discovered that journaling wasn’t as easy or straightforward. As she navigated through her journey, she realized that women who experienced heartbreak and betrayal like her could benefit from a similar program, a healing journal combined with movement (and more!) that provides prompts and routines to help disentangle the confused mind and destress the tense body. And so Rage & Reps was born.
Kellie inspires women who experienced life-altering pain and heartbreak especially those in their midlife. It’s not your fault that you’re betrayed. Forgive yourself and be empowered. In your journey forward, you will have to choose your hard: Do you want a pity party or create a life where you can succeed? How do you start perfectly? You don’t. Start simple and start messy. Start releasing that rage and doing those reps, and you’ll surely be on the way to recovery.
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- Kellie’s ex-husband’s betrayal and affair that led to journaling as an outlet for her rage and healing
- How Kellie started journaling from scratch
- Rage & Reps prompts to help other women in their own journaling
- Burning the pages in the journal to release the pain
- The realization that it’s not your fault and being empowered from it
- Kellie’s refocus on her health after losing too much weight
- Choose your hard: Do you want to have a pity party, or create a life where you can succeed?
- Start getting that fog out of your head.
- Starting messy
- Undergoing therapy
- Midlife – a new beginning of life
- Take a risk on yourself and don’t tell everybody everything.
- Keep reading and journaling and you will not be the same person in a year
- How to get started in journaling when you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed: start simple and messay
- Having a support system and putting aside the unsupportive
- Forgiveness for yourself
- How to contact K.J. Risley
About K.J. Risley:
K.J. Risley is the author of Rage & Reps, a 30-Day Starting Point Journal, created to help women rebuild their strength and confidence after betrayal. A divorced mom herself, Kellie knows firsthand what it feels like to have life turned upside down-and she has made it her mission to turn her own pain into purpose. With Rage & Reps, she offers women over 50 a powerful starting point to reclaim their energy, confidence, and strength. Her message is clear: life isn’t over just because divorced happened in midlife. It’s never too late to reset your story and create the life you truly deserve.
Connect with K.J. Risley:
Instagram | Amazon For Book Rage & Reps
Email: Ragereps1@gmail.com
“Everybody in life has it hard. Do you want to have a pity party after this betrayal or do you want to start to create a life where you can succeed? Both are hard. Trying to be an entrepreneur, that’s hard. But I’d rather do that than be depressed and not getting anywhere in life and repeating my story to friends and playing the victim. I’d rather do the entrepreneurial part!” – K.J. Risley
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Dr. Lynn Hellerstein, Developmental Optometrist, award-winning author and international speaker, holds powerful and inspiring conversations with her guests in the areas of health, wellness, education, sports and psychology. They share their inspirational stories of healing and transformation through their vision expansion. Vision Beyond Sight Podcast will help you see with clarity, gain courage and confidence. Welcome to Vision Beyond Sight!
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